the
husband test!
This teaching is a little
different, but I felt it may help some of the issues people are dealing with in
their marriages. So I put this up for April. It makes God happy to see
marriages happy and working. It is the first place one should exercise the
practice of “LOVE” unconditional! If we can’t love our mates when they are
unlovely how can we love others? One thing God has been showing me about the
hurts of people these days… that it is the “all about ME” thinking! It isn’t
about “ME” it is about “US” … sometimes we have to sacrifice our feelings to
give love to someone else in need. Feelings are not wrong, but feelings are
personal and must be controlled! A feeling is not wrong until it is acted upon
wrongly! When we have a feeling it is our job to look through that feeling and
see it through God’s eyes, if it is selfish and will hurt someone else then it
must be kept to ourselves! We have control of our feelings … we do! We just
need to exercise that control! If we did that life would be so much better for
us and those around us.
One of the places this is
the leased done is in our homes. Why is it we feel we should treat strangers or
friends better than we treat our own family? Think deeply about this… where did
that concept come from? It is never okay to be rude and uncaring… we should be
comfortable at home but being comfortable is not having the freedom to just say
whatever you feel like because it is your family! These people are the ones
that love you the most and should be treated with more respect than a stranger
and as much respect as given to a friend! If we would all treat our loved ones
with manners and respect we would be shocked at the difference in the way our family
members feel & act. The only one we should be expressing our anger to is
Jesus, by telling Him and He will help you fix it or overcome it. Don’t take it
out on your family because you feel is okay for them to see you as you are.
Because if that is as you are then you truly need to change your attitude! So
many forget our children are little people too and they will remember how you
treated them when they grow up. So treat them with respect and you will receive
respect from them. You must correct them of course, but correction can be done
with respect. With this being said please read the questionnaire below and
answer the questions if you choose to. Thank you for visiting our web, please
share it with others.
Husband questions from your
belief (Be honest … try to think like he would!)
Remember you are answering
for him … this is to open your thinking of who you are to him. This is also for
you to copy and paste in an e-mail to send out if you feel it will help someone
on your e-mail list.
The purpose of these
questions it to help open our eyes to who our husbands think we really are and
if they are answered honestly may help us see this too.
If you answer these
questions honestly it may help you see things differently.
This is not to be sent out
to anyone else answered… this is for your eyes only!
Husbands need our love more
than any wife could ever know…
Husbands do not deal with
criticism well at all!
There are ways of telling a
husband he hurt you with out being critical… it will be so worth it to find how
to do this!
Husbands are like bees…
they will make honey if they are given sweetness!
Please feel free to send
this to all women on your e-mail list … unanswered of course.
May this help others find
happiness in their marriage! Happy
marriages are made, they don’t JUST HAPPEN!
Sad as it is … if a
marriage is happy it is usually the woman that makes that happen ~ of course it
takes a willing husband! When your husband looks at you “smile!” you will be amazed at what will
happen!